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Monday, February 19, 2018


Child bearing and upbringing are unavoidably the primary assignment of every human being, males or females. It is this child bearing and upbringing that ensures continuity of human species, in whose hand the coordination of all other creatures lie. As social animals, man is endowed with intelligence to discover, explore and manipulate the nature.
So, such a person needs to be well handled and brought up to meet up with the huge tasks and challenges ahead of him. This call for the topic

The following are some expertise research concerning raising a child.
1. Find Time For Your Kids.
The first thing your child needs from you is maximum attention. To pay attention means finding time for him.
Take interest in what he is doing. Encourage him if he is doing the right thing. This will give him confidence . Discourage him if he is doing wrong. This will assist him in differentiating between good and bad deeds. Listen to him to know his problems and find solution to them.
With these, you will learn about his unique personality and traits as well natural gifts endowed with him to help his development later in life.

Let Him Know What He Is To You.
   Do you know your child don't know what he is to you until you let him know who he is to you.
Have you noticed that some children love going to some people else aside from his father or mother.
Let you child know that you love him dairly and let him know how much important he is to you. This will profer confidence and sense of belonging. Children love to possess. Knowing and having you as his father is a special possession he ever has. Thus you are his pride.

Train Him That Challenges Builds One To Be Strong.
Train him how to face challenges all alone and never run away from it. This achieved. It could be that he wants to change school, leave a friend, stop a program.
You can ask him why he want to leave,or discontinue the program. You let him see he had gone with it, what he has achieved in it, and potential opportunities he will get from it if he stay put.
Carry Him Along In Your Daily Routine.
Involve him actively in your home core. Appreciate his effort even if he got it wrong. He will become smart and perfect after continuous interesting participation.

Train Him To Be A Controller Of Negative Emotion.
Negative emotions like anger,hatred, shame, envy and a host of others suppresses passion and care for others. Let him see the positive consequence of the attitude and desuade them from it. Preach the positive opposites of these emotions and inculcate it in them. Let them see that love for others, spreading of happiness ,caring and sharing improve personal mood and aid development.
Acquaint Him With Worlds Beyond The Family.
Let him know that the world doesn't end with the micro-world family level he is in, and that the family is just the beginning. Let him know of other existing races, cultures, religion, countries, languages and so on. Let him know these are not against him but for him to explore for the benefits contained in them. For the roles awaiting him. For the contribution he has to fulfil. Let him watch films, movies, music's, football matches religious programs and see the different roles different people of diverse background play. Especially, football matches like Europian Leagues, let him see how players from Asian, Africa, Europe,America and so on form a team.

Friday, January 8, 2016

What A Child Is Not

A child is a family member. He is a  member of a community. Nay ,he belong to the world,the world belongs to him. He has rights to receive and responsibilities to discharge. Therefore,he should not be denied his rights,nor disallowed to carry out responsibilities.
A child is not to be oppressed. He is not to be cheated. Instead,his place should be recognised in the community as well as the nation and the world.
When the youth are denied the right to education,community development, self expresson and other civic rights,we should know we are running the next generation to ruin.
Children are not tobe abused socialy,emotionaly and psycologicaly. They are not for sexual harasment,illegal advertidement,political instrument,religious sacrifice and other influential illicit activities.
Children are not to be taken for granted. They are not to be ignored. They needs to be given their accorded respect and recognition. They are our future. They will retain our culture,our religion,our ideology,our value,our principle,our phylosophy.
Because of their ironic position in the community,all hands must be on deck to ensure their full establishment as our future adams.
It is our responsibility to guide them to all that will promote their well being and aid their progress,with no discrimination of  where they come from.
We are to guard them against all evils and negative ocurences. Their security lies in our hands.
We are to give them courage to forge fort. They need our support to be successful in their education pursuit.

Thursday, December 3, 2015

What A Child Is

It seems life is incomplete without a child.It is as if everyone has been created with special interest in children upbringing in their blood. Of course this enable the fulfilment of biological principle of continuity as well as heavenly scriptural prophecy.
New born baby is a gift and blessings of nature. It is now left to man to nurture it and thus,reap the consequence of his stewardship.
We may therefore have to explore into  What a child is.
To some,it is just part of life. It has little or no value to engage one in caring of whole-heartedly.
Some consider it worthwhile,while some regard it as an investment to reap at old age.
Child is a gift of nature. It is a means of continuity.through child bearing.we have certainty to everlasting existence of human specie like other living creatures.
It is agreat mistake discriminating among innocent children,when it is incumbent on us to take proper care of them.
They are trust on us,at least to aid the continuity. The Supreme Being wants to see how we are going to tender His special gift. We will surely reap what we sow. For if we do it the right way.we get the blessing attached to it;however if we do it the wrong way,we surfer for it.Nay,not only we reap the consequence,but the whole community,the nation and the whole world,entirely. We can see what is happening everywhere,terrorism.oppression.tyranny and gross of disorderliness, today. These are consequencies of yesterday mismanagement of the children.
Children are more to us than how we handle them.
A child is an asset. Is an ambassador of the parent.

What do you think a child is?let us have your comment.
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