Child bearing and upbringing are unavoidably the primary assignment of every human being, males or females. It is this child bearing and upbringing that ensures continuity of human species, in whose hand the coordination of all other creatures lie. As social animals, man is endowed with intelligence to discover, explore and manipulate the nature.
So, such a person needs to be well handled and brought up to meet up with the huge tasks and challenges ahead of him. This call for the topic
WHAT IT TAKES TO RAISE A CHILD.
The following are some expertise research concerning raising a child.
1. Find Time For Your Kids.
The first thing your child needs from you is maximum attention. To pay attention means finding time for him.
Take interest in what he is doing. Encourage him if he is doing the right thing. This will give him confidence . Discourage him if he is doing wrong. This will assist him in differentiating between good and bad deeds. Listen to him to know his problems and find solution to them.
With these, you will learn about his unique personality and traits as well natural gifts endowed with him to help his development later in life.
Let Him Know What He Is To You.
Do you know your child don't know what he is to you until you let him know who he is to you.
Have you noticed that some children love going to some people else aside from his father or mother.
Let you child know that you love him dairly and let him know how much important he is to you. This will profer confidence and sense of belonging. Children love to possess. Knowing and having you as his father is a special possession he ever has. Thus you are his pride.
Train Him That Challenges Builds One To Be Strong.
Train him how to face challenges all alone and never run away from it. This achieved. It could be that he wants to change school, leave a friend, stop a program.
You can ask him why he want to leave,or discontinue the program. You let him see he had gone with it, what he has achieved in it, and potential opportunities he will get from it if he stay put.
Carry Him Along In Your Daily Routine.
Involve him actively in your home core. Appreciate his effort even if he got it wrong. He will become smart and perfect after continuous interesting participation.
Train Him To Be A Controller Of Negative Emotion.
Negative emotions like anger,hatred, shame, envy and a host of others suppresses passion and care for others. Let him see the positive consequence of the attitude and desuade them from it. Preach the positive opposites of these emotions and inculcate it in them. Let them see that love for others, spreading of happiness ,caring and sharing improve personal mood and aid development.
Acquaint Him With Worlds Beyond The Family.
Let him know that the world doesn't end with the micro-world family level he is in, and that the family is just the beginning. Let him know of other existing races, cultures, religion, countries, languages and so on. Let him know these are not against him but for him to explore for the benefits contained in them. For the roles awaiting him. For the contribution he has to fulfil. Let him watch films, movies, music's, football matches religious programs and see the different roles different people of diverse background play. Especially, football matches like Europian Leagues, let him see how players from Asian, Africa, Europe,America and so on form a team.