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Friday, December 6, 2019

BUIDING THE BEST IN A CHILD

Biologists classify human beings as animals. Whether true or not, animalistic traits are more prominently displayed during childhood and in some individuals who were not raised well, especially in terms of morality and spirituality.

During the childhood stage, many of the behaviors exhibited by children are concerning and may even seem condemnable. Rather than condemning these behaviors, they should be studied and modified to align with normalcy. Over time, these initially troublesome behaviors can transform into commendable characteristics as the child matures.

Children can be quite demanding during their early years, especially when seeking something from their mothers. Additionally, some children may exhibit oppressive behaviors, particularly towards their siblings. If these behaviors persist, they may develop into bullying tendencies within the classroom environment.

Some children exhibit shyness at a young age, which could result in a lack of participation in the classroom and potentially lead to academic struggles.

Greediness can also manifest in some children to the extent that they refuse to share what has been given to them. Conversely, some children may demonstrate generosity, willingly sharing their possessions with others.

Furthermore, many children tend to display laziness, which can lead to irresponsibility. On the other hand, there are highly generous children who selflessly ask for things on behalf of their friends, demonstrating their willingness to give.

The responsibility for correcting these behavioral anomalies lies with the parents, who play roles as modifiers, rehabilitators, redirectors, and guides for their children. Through the concerted efforts of parents, these negative tendencies can be transformed into positive traits in the children's lives.

With consistent and dedicated guidance, these worrisome behaviors can contribute to a brighter future for the children. Those who exhibit stubbornness may become advocates for freedom, fighting against oppression and injustice. Those who were once oppressive may learn the value of empathy and stand against oppression.

Children who are shy during their tender years can grow up to be approachable individuals who are humble yet responsible. With proper training, those who tend to be miserly can become skilled managers with a sense of accountability.

The greedy ones can develop into successful entrepreneurs, particularly skilled in investments. Lazy children, when properly guided, may excel in prioritizing important aspects of their lives, effectively managing resources, time, and people.

Generous children may evolve into philanthropists, showing compassion and forgiveness while also becoming effective leaders. Without proper guidance, they may become extravagant and transgressors.

In any case, parents play a significant role in shaping their children's behavior through training. Later on, the broader community and society also contribute to this process.